Now, if you wish to live life divine life, meaning 'to please God', -------
1. Before doing any work you need to think for whom it is being done. Thus you need to remember God before doing every work. For this, you can give God any form that you like...Boy, Girl, Man, Woman, any other living being, combination of living beings, old person whatever you like.
This is like putting elixir in any container of any shape. Ultimately you will taste elixir and not the bottle.

The best form is of The Beautiful - Krishn.
Or God can be thought as formless. But formless God is at the lowest hierarchy in the spiritual world because it lacks many enjoyable attributes of God with form.

2. Whether God will be pleased by what I am doing?
This step will put automatic halt to wrong doings.

3. Since you want to please God you cannot think of what you like but all the time you need to think 'what God likes'.
This turns Beggar into Giver. Do not beg to God but offer to God whatever you can. Become a lover not a beggar.

You need not even ask eternal bliss. Let it be God's wish. You might love intensely and crave for his sight. But again let it be God's wish whether to be with me or away from me. Respect, disrespect hardly matters because your mind is too preoccupied with thoughts of God.

Although it seems very difficult, practice will give mastery over it sooner or later.